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1. Have a Healthy Self-Esteem
What i mean by a healthy self-esteem is to have a good image of yourself, I'm not talking about a high self-esteem were you see yourself above everyone else but a healthy one. Don't feel less than anybody else, and don't let anyone walk over you. Because this world is not a vertical world, but a horizontal one.
2. Love your Neighbor
What good do you do starting fights, looking down at people, or simply having enemies? This might sound like a cliche but the bible couldn't be more right than that, that's almost the key for life. I know we humans and even if we don't want to, we somehow create problems with each other. And sometimes for the most stupid of reasons, but here I am to tell you that we also have the power to avoid those stupid problems we create. So love your neighbor, in a brotherly way, before you insult and do something bad to someone, ask yourself; "would i do this to my brother?"
3. Live a Real life
The biggest mistake we can make as human beings is to put limits on our life's, don't get me wrong, it's good to have limits but it's limits that save you from problems. Now I'm talking about the bad limits we put ourselves, those limits that hold us back from all we can be. Those limits we create simply by saying "I'll never loose weight, I'm too fat already." or "I'll never get that job, I'm not qualified enough for it." Those are the limits that ruin our lives, those are those false limits that society puts in front of us to keep us weak and unsuccessful. Those are the limits that weak men and women have created to live easily through this life that they have been given. So don't limit yourself, impossible is not a fact but only an opinion.
4. Choose were to put your ladder
Life is full of disappointments, sometimes we depend too much on someone or something, so my tip to you, is choose wisely were to put your ladder. In todays world we cannot afford to trust our financial wall to hold our ladder, because before you know it, that wall will crumble. If we try to stand our ladder in the relationship wall, guess what? That wall will fall sooner or later. Either the girl leaves you, or you two live a happy life until one dies. If you don't believe in God, then I'm not sure what to tell you, but if there is something that will never crumble is God so if i were you, i would give him my ladder.
5. Give Yourself a Break
If there anything in this article that you should take with you, well it should be this. Life is tough, we mess up... A lot sometimes i recommend you live as if you already died, like if there is nothing to loose. Because you know what? You could cross the street tomorrow and be killed by a truck. So live, love enjoy the little things, the beauty of life is in the details. Tomorrow morning enjoy your cup of coffee like if it were the last you'll ever have. Hug your husband or wife like if it were the last hug... life is too short for us to take it for granted. So stop whining about having a better life, and start living what you already have.