the following is the story of one of my best friends (Joe):?
Joe has been living together with his GF Bonne?for 5 years, they don't marry because the bad economic condition. but at the end of this year, Joe's mother is so seriously ill that no one knows how long can his mother live in this world. Joe knows that if his mother can't see him being married before she leaves this world,?she will?be very regret. so he decided to marry with Bonne right away. he?declared such situation to his GF Bonne and hope she can help him to realize his mother's wish: they take the Marriage License first,?making wedding feast when they get through the difficulty.?Joe only has RMB 20 k in the pocket. but Bonne wants to follow her hometown custom--engagement first which can use up all Joe's savingfor bride-price. At the meantime, Joe's mother is still staying in hospital and it would cost him a big amount(maybe RMB20k is not enough) to keep his mother living more longer. he ask me help him make decision.
?everyone, who can give Joe good suggestion?
marriage is only cost 9yuan for the Marriage License .others for mother's treatment.maybe when they have enough money ,then?manage a wonderful wedding.
yes,I agree that taking care of his mother is the most important thing.and I hope his mother will get better soon to see their wedding .
Life is the most precious
Hope his mother can recover soon.
Surely most important thing is making a treatment for his mother first. Hope joe's mother will be better soon.
mother and gf are all important in our life,but he mother 's time is limited,so his gf should understand for this point,if she love him
i agree with the first floor.Now the most important thing is taking care of his mother.
Joy's mother doesn't have much time while there's long time for Joy's marriage life. So Joy should pay his limited money for his mother's medicine first and persuade his GF and get her understanding. They can make up the marriage wedding and honeymoon when they can affort it later.
